FINDING YOUR RIGHT RELATIONSHIP CAN NOT ONLY TRANSITION YOUR LIFE FROM GOOD TO GREAT IT CAN ALSO GO FROM TOLERATION TO HAPPY, HAPPY, HAPPY.
We all seek connection with persons who are supportive, honest, understanding, and life-giving. Some relationships we get involved with are not chosen but get imposed on us such as colleagues, family, and neighbors to name a few. What needs to happen so these relationships succeed, become tolerable and even enjoyable?
If you want to begin developing your relationship-happiness the answers to these questions might help:
- What am I looking for in any relationship?
- Am I looking for a long- term relationship?
- Am I looking for a social connection only?
- Why is seeking a relationship important to me now?
- Where have I been looking?
- Why am I not finding what I am looking for?
- Am I ready to now look in right places?
- How will I feel when I find the right relationship?
- Am I ready to start a healthy search?
- Will I let Ida join with me with this process now?
In the workplace
Working relationships are crucial during any employment. When stress develops, we must remedy the situation as quickly as possible
What is it about this relationship that creates stress?
Is the stress within me or between us?
How can I make this colleague or person(s) more acceptable to me?
What common ground can we share?
How can I comfortably address this issue?
- Speak directly?
- Learn how the other feels about our relationship?
- Is there something specific that is affecting our communication?
- Is there a need to consult a mediator?
- Why not consult Ida for help?